You could be that someone

𝑯𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒇 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒃𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅? 𝑰𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒂 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏? 𝑶𝒓 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒛𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒌𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒍𝒐𝒏𝒆?

At a certain point in our lives, we will face this most life-changing decision to make. That will last for a lifetime. And as they say, be extra careful. Be secured. Be prepared. But why nobody told us to be strong? Strong enough to live with the choices we make. 

You could be that someone who get cheated once and decided to finally close your heart to anybody. However, you are enjoying life, travelling here and there, fulfilled and happy.  

You could be that someone who get cheated once, tried for another love and broken twice and yet still open for third love. Just enjoying life, living in the moment and just being happy while in the journey of waiting.

You could be that someone who almost got married but ran away just before or on your wedding day. Now your are happily living on your own. In a new and faraway land.

You could be that someone who is married, in a relationship but miserable. Just finding the right timing to escape. 

You could be that someone who's strong enough to live and enjoy life alone with someone in your heart and yet no longer wanting to be with that person.

Or you could be that someone who is happily married with a loving partner. Enjoying the married life and living your dream.

The point is, you hold the key to the kind of life that you want to build. The kind of life that you want to live. You are the main character in your story. You have the 100% power to choose the role you want to play on. And when you are at it, give your 100% at first take. Dont consider a 2nd take. You will never know if there will be. 

If no one reminds you this, then I will own this part. Be strong enough to live with every choices you make in life. And just be okay with the idea that being in a relationship is not for everyone. And in whatever case, be happy with the role you have chosen to play on. 

Ciao!